There are many times when a former couple must rely upon a mediator to help modify a divorce order.  Some examples include:

Change of Spousal or Child Support

A change of spousal support or child support may be necessary when one of the spouses changes jobs.  The income figured used to calculate the proper amount of support may be changed due to this recent development.  Other reasons may arise that call for a modification, such as when the supported spouse gets married or becomes reliant on a romantic partner.

Compliance

Sometimes there are orders made to the parties that extend past the divorce date.  For example, a spouse may be ordered to pay certain expenses.  A spouse may have been ordered to refinance the house in his or her own name but not be able to after the fact.  Mediation allows the parties to work out solutions to these common post-divorce issues.

Change in Parenting Time

As children get older, their needs may change.  They may become involved in extracurricular activities and need the plan to adjust so that they can attend these functions.  They may also prefer to spend the night at a friend’s house instead of at the non-custodial parent’s house.  Mediation can help reevaluate what adjustments can be made so that the new agreement better serves the family’s interests.

Relocation

Custody agreements can remain in effect for years.  However, there may be changes in a person’s life that occur during this time, such as getting a new job that requires relocation.  When a parent moves to another city or state, the impact can be significant on the custody plan.

Decisions

The parents may encounter a decision in which they come to an impasse.  This may be a decision regarding which school the child should attend, a healthcare decision or a decision regarding religious upbringing.