Equitable asset distribution in a divorce doesn’t have to be a battle of wills.  In fact, in asset distribution mediation, it’s possible for divorcing couples to equitably divide the marital property and savings in a way that keeps resentment and tension related to a divorce to a minimum.  For many wise and thrifty couples, it’s the only way to handle things.  The best part is that it saves time and money in the process of finalizing a divorce.

Many of the questions and concerns about property and divorce—particularly, who gets what and why—are due to inexperience with the situation and a lack of knowledge of the way things are handled traditionally in the justice system.  Beyond this, couples who are aware of situations that arose when their friends or family members divorced know first-hand how easily the situation can degrade and lead to a total loss of family savings and dignity.

This knowledge has prompted the need for a cost-effective divorce mediation process to divide property and savings while reaching an equitable and dignified divorce settlement.  When a couple chooses to litigate a divorce, the fate of all of the assets and property they have worked so hard to purchase will be in the hands of a judge who does not know the whole story and cannot make a fair decision due to that lack of knowledge.  Put simply: When a stranger decides your future and the future of your divorcing spouse, there is much uncertainty involved.  Why would anyone invite that kind of uncertainty?

In equitable distribution mediation, you and your spouse are the only ones who can determine the way you want your assets divided.  Since you earned the money together, and built the life you had together, it only makes sense that the power of this decision be placed in your own hands.  A skilled mediator can assist with facilitating the discussion and paperwork, but ultimately, it is your life—and your choice.