Thinking About Getting Divorced? - 7 Things To Consider A lot of the women we interviewed when we wrote “Love For Grown-Ups: The Garter Brides Guide to Marrying for Life When You Already Have a Life” were on their second or third marriages. They’d all been through a divorce or two and offered us some advice for women who were contemplating divorce. We aren’t attorneys or legal advisers, we’re just offering information from women who have learned — in some cases, the hard way — things to think about before you take this big step.

Adjusting To Shared Custody After Divorce: Keep in Touch With the Kids - After a divorce, adjusting to shared custody of your kids can be very difficult, to say the least. Maybe your children stay with their dad on weekends and major holidays or during their summer vacations.